Hello,
Some how you'd think that you are done with issues concerning how dignified a friend should be after you grew up beyond high school and teen years. That wasn't the case last week. When a girl I knew for almost a year came to visit some tourist attraction near my city with her boy friend. I don't know if it was my mistake, but i couldn't get over the fact that she didn't tell me about that. Even if she didn't want to see me, wouldn't it be the decent thing to send a message and say: "Hello, I am sorry I won't be able to meet you this time".
For many years, I considered my self surrounded with good friends. Maybe not the kinds that will stand in the way of a bullet for you, but the kind that will visit you in the hospital -or the sematary - if one hits you. What Roxy did takes her from that circle. I am glad if it took me all this long to find one bad friendship. this might indicate that I have a good taste for friends.
1 comment:
A quick thought - I can see it from both points of view. Take for a moment her side, she was with her boyfriend & perhaps thought it would be uncomfortable for the both of you (assuming you're a guy). If you aren't, then perhaps there was another reason why she didn't call. It really goes back to your history with her & her character. If she does contact you, keep an open mind. Plus time has a way of softening an egregious act sometimes. In my case, it was a matter of not being understood & a lack of respect so I broke friendships off with both a guy and a girl.
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